We’re a family of four in our 40s — and a year ago, we did something a lot of people called reckless.
My husband took a full year of parental leave. I walked away from a 10-year career at IBM, choosing early retirement instead of the next promotion. Together, we packed up our life in the city and moved to Jeju Island with our two kids, ages 6 and 9, in tow.
On paper, none of it made sense. I’d spent my whole life doing everything “right” — the right schools, the right job, the right five-year plan. Until we turned 40, we lived what most people would call a stable, typical Korean life.
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How We Actually Got Here
Before the boxes were unpacked, there was the ferry, the goodbyes, and a decision that took months to actually feel real.
Choosing an international school wasn’t just a logistics decision — it reshaped how we think about our kids’ whole future. Here’s what that first year actually looked like, cost, and taught us.
Between the big life decisions, there’s also just… life on Jeju. The forest trails, the museums, the mandarin fields — the small moments that make this island feel like home.
Leaving Career didn’t mean leaving work behind — it meant rebuilding it on our own terms. We’re figuring out what it looks like to earn a living from anywhere, and we’re sharing that process as honestly as the rest of this story. More on that soon.